Remember, your body doesn’t know or care that it's Christmas. While it may be perfectly reasonable to have extra calories today, do it in a deliberate and planned way, instead of just allowing yourself to eat more, telling yourself that it doesn’t count. Also, if you eat extra in a planned way, you’ll enjoy it more because you’ll know that it’s part of your plan for the day!
Our diet tips provide daily motivation and problem solving to help you stick to your diet plan. It’s an extra bit of motivation to help you start your day right.
If you get off track with healthy eating, remind yourself that it’s never too late to get back on track. You can make the decision to get back on track right this MINUTE. Don’t wait for the next month, week, day, or hour. Do it right NOW. Prove to yourself that you never have to wait to get back on track, and you can always make the rest of the day/week/month better than it has been.
There is NOT ONE single food that you can eat while you’re off track that you can’t also eat when you’re on track. When you’re working on healthy eating, it’s true that you probably can’t eat as much of it as you want, but certainly any food can be worked into your diet in reasonable portions. This weekend, work on eating your favorite food in a reasonable way.
Whether you plan to have one, two, or three cookies at a holiday party, the most important part is that you stick to your plan. It’s critical to always stick to your plan, whatever that plan may be. The more you do so, the easier and easier it will be to continue doing so and the less effort and energy it will take because you’ll just know, “I always stick to my plan, no matter what.”
Sabotaging Thought The holiday season is so busy, I don’t want to worry about my eating, too.
Response: It’s true, the holidays can be stressful. But guaranteed I’ll actually feel MORE stress if my eating gets out of control because I’ll feel guilty about it and be worried about gaining weight. Continuing to work on staying in control of my eating will help me to feel less stress during the holidays, not more.
It's helpful to have a guideline (especially this time of year) like, “No treats until after dinner.” That way, you’ll be more easily able to turn down sweets all day, knowing you get to have some later. If you want dessert during the day, remind yourself, “I don’t need to eat this now, I know I get to have a treat after dinner. I can wait.”
Achieving a really big goal (like losing and maintaining weight) is really a matter of achieving many smaller goals along the way. This weekend, commit to a smaller goal, like eating everything sitting down or deciding in advance when and how many treats you’ll have. Eventually the small goals lead up to big ones!
If you’ve lost weight and then gained it back in the past, remember that if you want different results, you have to do things differently. Cutting out favorite foods and slashing calories to lose weight quickly ultimately won’t lead to permanent weight loss because it's not maintainable. This time, focus on making changes that you CAN maintain – which makes weight loss maintainable, too.
The better you feel about yourself, the better your holiday season will be. While you may think you’ll enjoy it more if you eat with abandon, likely you’ll feel badly and guilty if you do – which significantly diminishes enjoyment. This year, work on staying in control. This will help you feel better about yourself and your eating, and will help you enjoy the holiday season all the more.
Sabotaging Thought: It’s okay to eat right now because I’m stressed and need a break.
Response: If I’m stressed, I deserve to relax and take a break. But since I also deserve to lose weight, have improved health, feel better about myself, etc. I need to find other ways to relax without turning to food. Eating in order to relax and losing weight are mutually exclusive goals. I can’t have both!
The Beck Diet Program was developed by Dr. Judith S. Beck with Deborah Beck Busis, LCSW.
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